#SocialCafe 8.28 Chat Transcript Author: Deborah Published: [mashshare shares="false" buttons="true" align="left"]Click Here to view entire Twitter Chat Summary.#SocialCafe40: Mini Habits & Little Bits #SocialCafe 8.28#SocialCafe - Odcinek 4 - Jak powsta? #socialselling? O genezie (r)ewolucji sprzeda?y rozmawiaj? ?ukasz Maroszczy… https://t.co/0I111mUZ8Q— SocialCube(@SocialCube_) Tonight on #SocialCafe we activate the Little Bits for big success.Join us in 10 minutes - 9 pm ET/8 pm CT https://t.co/fEUBrNK1Z6— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) Q8 Finally, it is time to brag about what you do well! Your #ShamelessPlug is .. (Note: The #ShamelessPlug is som… https://t.co/29Rtz0ZavT— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Welcome to tonight’s #SocialCafe – say hello and share who you are, what you do, and how you use "little bits" to m… https://t.co/DFKzL08w8v— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) #GettingToKnowYou: What is your favorite movie line – let’s see if we can guess the movie.#SocialCafe https://t.co/cN3jbc0BbK— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) Hello #SocialCafe - Excited to be sharing in the challenge to use little bits for big success.Who's with me!— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Love this month of talking about the little bits ;)Hello #SocialCafe !And, thanks, @Kathrynclang for hosting!— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) #Gettingtoknowyou:The quote I love:You're an amazing dancer, and you're a great choreographer, but as a boyfrie… https://t.co/NHGZidmdXy— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) 2 Tips to Help Us Build and Grow: 1) Please follow each other on Twitter; and 2) Please retweet the questions.… https://t.co/tCSoubbw9i— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) @socialwebcafe Thanks for having me - all this talk about little bits has made a BIG difference in my daily actions!#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) That is great to hear, @Kathrynclang !Hey #SocialCafe - you can all do the same. We can all do the same - success… https://t.co/nvRTWGOAz3— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Q1: The “Little Bits” system is about doing things one step at a time instead of trying to do it all at once. Wh… https://t.co/nJvybPGbK6— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A1 I can ensure that I have them on my calendar so that I ensure that I accomplish the little bits on the way to ma… https://t.co/9LUfnde2mj— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A1) Larger tasks will cause rapid burnout unless you start to chip away at it with little bits. Have an article due… https://t.co/RKJzJMO7FO— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) A1: I've broken up an hour into smaller bits of time - 30/20/5/5. It keeps things moving and also keeps things inte… https://t.co/ne29NUxZWZ— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Q2: What is a big project you have on your BIG DREAM goals list?#SocialCafe https://t.co/xFdCHRN2md— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) Q2: What is a big project you have on your BIG DREAM goals list?#SocialCafe https://t.co/39HRD0cea8— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A1: Applying small changes to a larger goal are more manageable and give you that psychological "boost" from the accomplishment. #SocialCafe— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) A2) My world tour teaching leadership development. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid And I bet it got all there a little bit at a time :)#SocialCafe Hey Tom, how are you tonight?— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid Oh - can definitely relate to burnout! I feel like that is the menu of the day so I really need to work… https://t.co/sCoZdCRgWm— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) We also help each other grow by sharing the journey. Start getting your #ShamelessPlug tweets ready to tell us wh… https://t.co/RvphHvE6Ng— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) YES! Exactly. Tackling the little bits gives you a boost to tackle a little more.Hey Dan, thanks for joining… https://t.co/kfjFU4wLcA— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A2 Completing the list of little-bits-social-media-marketing for our next #SocialCafe40 soon!#SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A2: My big project is launching Harness Your Why - live stream, camps, and books!#SocialCafe https://t.co/BCMps4zaBq— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid I want to go on the world tour :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Hey @Dan_MacDougallx - welcome ;). #SocialCafe Yes, more manageable and I like your reference to that psychologic… https://t.co/o8ZI9kdrrq— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Kathrynclang Thanks for asking. Experiencing some rather severe externally imposed frustration, but need to stay f… https://t.co/sbKCtCCEQs— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @socialwebcafe The little bits have gotten me to this stage of completion. So yes. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Q3: How can you break up your big project into “little bits” or into manageable bites?#SocialCafe https://t.co/6cq1bXtGjk— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) @Kathrynclang At client expense. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Ooh - do share!Would love to hear more about your world tour, @_TomGReid #SocialCafe Or, we could save it for y… https://t.co/UUmFWPrBhp— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Kathrynclang We are all looking forward to your big project, Kat! #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A3: The key to "little bits" is breaking them up in a way that keeps the momentum going forward. For writing, I d… https://t.co/KDIg28xzdm— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @socialwebcafe Thanks!Harness Your Why live stream is up and going! I'll share the link during the #shamelessplug #SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A3) From my vision & mission I establish specific goals. I then list the significant milestones 4 each goal & the v… https://t.co/tiD1liWuDd— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Q4: What is one way “little bits” can keep you from reaching your goals? #SocialCafe https://t.co/g7qxFVke9j— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) @socialwebcafe @Kathrynclang knows I've been trying to get my leadership development speaking/teaching launched w/… https://t.co/VeuKQDUUJc— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @Kathrynclang Momentum! Yes Kat! Taking small steps (forward) is still progress! #SocialCafe— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) @_TomGReid Wow - very impressive. I think I may have to acquire that milestone idea ;)#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A4: When you get caught up in the activity of little bits without purposeful action driving them then the little bi… https://t.co/AnqYGsMloR— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Having a plan, a framework or a structure. Good input Tom! #SocialCafe https://t.co/L4Q976ZKui— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) A4: The little bits still need to be somewhat significant and impact the overall progress. If the little bit is too… https://t.co/M5Ikaok1CI— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) There's a math theory that you can never get from point A to point B b/c from any point between the 2 you have to c… https://t.co/4TLWQd0rry— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid @socialwebcafe I think Harness Your Why would be perfect for schools and colleges!#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid Just reading that derailed me :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid @Kathrynclang Sorry for the severe externally imposed frustration... hope it gets better.#SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Q5: What can you do to avoid getting so caught up in the “little bits” that you miss the big target?#SocialCafe https://t.co/xQ8a5kIB98— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A3 Sometimes using a whiteboard helps - sketching it out with words ;)#SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Kathrynclang @socialwebcafe I know "the Why" is the popular phrase, but it is nothing but having a vision that mot… https://t.co/yrQDng6EF6— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Great advice from @_TomGReid #SocialCafe https://t.co/dzcgf34EiO— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A5: Measuring results can be vital for knowing you aren't missing the big target.And having the big target writte… https://t.co/IUFUG1HraM— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @Kathrynclang It's similar to what you said about TOO little bits that do not move you forward. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid @Kathrynclang Oh - I love that cruise ship part ;). Michael and I used to spend time on cruises, collect… https://t.co/IOHMiQV8nZ— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A5) Plan, plan, plan. Execute, execute, execute. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid @socialwebcafe I've thought about different words that express the idea, but keep coming back to the why of it all.#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid I can see that if you are taking half-steps. If you can foresee a cross point between A and B, set an ac… https://t.co/l0tM38VWIc— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) Ditto that you two :). #SocialCafe https://t.co/kBTykJvyY0— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @_TomGReid review, review, review. Repeat, repeat, repeat :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A4 Hadn't thought of that but yes, when you do, say, 15 little bits tasks for one goal and forget to do one for ano… https://t.co/uhO4jlMpMW— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Q6: What is the top thing you struggle with when it comes to taking the steps into your desired success or goal?… https://t.co/KAeGZCKCHG— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) Loving the math - can never get too much math in life. Thanks, @_TomGReid #SocialCafe https://t.co/y0VQL6WDGF— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Kathrynclang @socialwebcafe Old school. Vision - your view of the perfect world. If it doesn't motivate you (expla… https://t.co/EfE0OXFFKe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) A6: I struggle with consistence when facing little or no change. I know to keep going, but I struggle to keep mys… https://t.co/1nJPiofTUZ— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Yes, @Dan_MacDougallx - "impact the overall progress..." #SocialCafe https://t.co/KZP4LiNhyu— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A5: Use the SMART goal technique. The little bit is still significant (all you computer geeks should get a laugh ou… https://t.co/VTYiBYgyjt— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) @Kathrynclang Let me stick a "learn, revise, improve" between those two sets and I think we are on to something. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) A5 Organization and Structure #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @_TomGReid @socialwebcafe Right - so part one is define your why (the unique heartseed of you); part two is mapping… https://t.co/0dhFkA9wHo— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid You better be learning, because if you aren't learning you aren't growing and if you aren't growing then . . .#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A6 Distractions #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) I LOVE this!"Smaller just makes it more manageable"another great reason to utilize "little bits"#SocialCafe https://t.co/ohtUgmeTLy— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @Kathrynclang @_TomGReid ... then what are you doing?#SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Don't forget to use @Commun_It (which also works well with a little-bit-approach) for your #Twitter Relationship-building! #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @socialwebcafe I LITERALLY sat here the other day and watched squirrels fighting over Buckeyes the other day instea… https://t.co/8RXJqb8YyQ— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Q7: What are other questions you have about utilizing the “little bits” system?#SocialCafe https://t.co/nM6TTvcgLx— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A7: It's not a question, but when you are putting "little bits" to work make sure it's something that works for you… https://t.co/DdHMWMSmd6— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A6: Setting the goal based on priority, impact or time.What do you do when you "hit the wall" and realise you jus… https://t.co/Sw4Vu9oe8l— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) @Kathrynclang Agree. That is why I added it so it is not forgotten. Hate to see people caught in a do-loop just rep… https://t.co/7ERBAY3kEh— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) RT @Dan_MacDougallx: A6: Setting the goal based on priority, impact or time.What do you do when you "hit the wall" and realise you just n…— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Kathrynclang @socialwebcafe Your just toying with me now, aren't you? #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) RT @_TomGReid: @Kathrynclang Agree. That is why I added it so it is not forgotten. Hate to see people caught in a do-loop just repeating th…— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @_TomGReid @socialwebcafe That's the game plan - the harness your why part not the toying with you part :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @Kathrynclang @socialwebcafe The temptations are strong, #SocialCafe https://t.co/eJwcdOTe1R— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @Dan_MacDougallx And then there are times when taking the nap is just what is needed :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid @socialwebcafe And the temptations are real :D#SocialCafe The frogs are back on the window right now!— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Q8: Ok, now it is time to brag about what you do well! Your #ShamelessPlug is ... #SocialCafe https://t.co/W2hwPrPKvc— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) :) #SocialCafe https://t.co/eEX6lEqIka— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A7) It is tempting to do the little bits you like, or are easy to complete and check off. It is very important that… https://t.co/NoR1ItNKMo— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) My #SocialCafe #Shamelessplug is:Join me for #HarnessYourWhy live every weekday at 9 am Central… https://t.co/JmFrH0Iokv— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid Perfect answer to my last tweet Tom! Thank you! #SocialCafe— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) @Kathrynclang I am one of six people in world who don't use Facebook. Looking forward to the YouTube channel! #SocialCafe— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) A8 My favorite #ShamelessPlug is this #SocialCafe community - family!— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Remember that the key to growing up your possibilities is to invest in connecting with others. Keep the conversatio… https://t.co/WgF3FWEmrw— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) @_TomGReid Very true - you can't just eat dessert and expect everything to balance out!#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @Dan_MacDougallx Tom is one of the other ones :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @Dan_MacDougallx @Kathrynclang And here I thought she was doing that just for me. #SocialCafe https://t.co/PMRy5lGwgV— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @Kathrynclang @_TomGReid WHAT?? #SocialCafe— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) @socialwebcafe This is a great community - so glad I found #SocialCafe. Y'all are great!— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid @Dan_MacDougallx I have a YouTube channel for #GrowingHOPE related stuff, but I'm not sure if I'll drop… https://t.co/5ZxYYOmLPR— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @Dan_MacDougallx @_TomGReid I know, right . . .#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Love it @Dan_MacDougallx Aren't you one of them, too, @_TomGReid #SocialCafe https://t.co/QafZGWTTro— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Ah, teamwork and family in the no-facebook party :). #SocialCafe https://t.co/SNlDNMfXIK— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Dan_MacDougallx When things are totally out of control (and that happens) just pick up the top item on your desk (… https://t.co/nZNzWKF8uF— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Thank you for joining us for our #SocialCafe Chat. Just wanted to let you know we appreciate YOU! https://t.co/DTIpq3UySN— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) RT @_TomGReid: @Dan_MacDougallx When things are totally out of control (and that happens) just pick up the top item on your desk (or inbox,…— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) @_TomGReid @Dan_MacDougallx I've been known to go outside and cut some flowers to put in displays around the house.… https://t.co/Pvtg8hRW7E— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @_TomGReid Simple solution that makes perfect sense. Thanks for the input Tom!! #SocialCafe— Dan MacDougall(@Dan_MacDougallx) Thanks to #SocialCafe folks for allowing me to share more on the little bits journey today.Now go and… https://t.co/oQ5Lc929XN— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Great idea!Last night, I did some singing and that got me motivated to do other "little bits" tasks... amazing wh… https://t.co/vnjPXiMyKW— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Yes, @_TomGReid has great input, doesn't he?So do you, @Dan_MacDougallx ... and @Kathrynclang Thank you!… https://t.co/cqGDPLF1D4— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) And, thank YOU @Kathrynclang for hosting tonight's #SocialCafe ! https://t.co/plxFRL856l— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Total side topic: Did any of you hear about the woman who was using a metal straw in UK, tripped, and impaled herse… https://t.co/28cCtcv88Y— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid I don't even know what to do with that.:)#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @socialwebcafe @Dan_MacDougallx @Kathrynclang Thank you all. I feel as though I gain far more than I give. You are… https://t.co/ncAtsGI3mb— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid Oh no! That is horrible. That poor woman! #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) So are you @_TomGReid - thank you!Hey - I look forward to your participation in the next #SocialCafe40 << I was… https://t.co/Wm4Em2Ags4— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) RT @socialwebcafe: A8 My favorite #ShamelessPlug is this #SocialCafe community - family!— Lisa(@BadassLioness) Tuesday #TwitterChat List #3 #MillennialTalk 8pm #LinkedInChat 8pm #DareToBe 8pm #TnEdChat 8pm… https://t.co/OmAxxoG6rx— Danielle Mamagona ???(@PokeyLuWho) Link to Complete Summary.