#SocialCafe 8.29 Chat Transcript

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Building Relationships that are Balanced & Relevant #SocialCafe 8.29

Tuesday #TwitterChat List #4 #MillennialTalk 8pm #LinkedInChat 8pm #DareToBe 8pm #TnEdChat 8pm #5THCHAT 8pm… https://t.co/6aDtgj2YFT
— Danielle Mamagona ???(@PokeyLuWho)

A8 My favorite #ShamelessPlug is this #LinkedInChat community (and the #SocialCafe community) - family!
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Welcome to the #SocialCafe Chat at our weekly Tues 6pm PDT / 9p EDT slot
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Our topic for this #SocialCafe : Building Relationships that are Balanced & Relevant 8.29 #chattingNow
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

#GettingToKnowYou: What is your favorite color and why?#SocialCafe https://t.co/vNNaaKXSQQ
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

2 Tips to Help Us Build and Grow: 1) Please follow each other on Twitter; and 2) Please retweet the questions. #SocialCafe Thanks!
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

Blue. #SocialCafe https://t.co/Y4as6rsPob
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

Hello #SocialCafe #GettingtoKnowYou - my favorite color is green, because I always thought it was God's favorite… https://t.co/OnNf0Z2lfh
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)

Tonight: Building Relationships that are Balanced & Relevant 8.29 #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q1 How do you define relationships (business or personal)? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

My favorite color is purple, because it goes with my second-fave, pink, but has its own unique versatility.… https://t.co/pQ6m5B1GsZ
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q1 (rephrase) How do you define “relationship?” #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

@socialwebcafe For balance, what is your favorite color? #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

@socialcafechat Ah! Caught tonight's chat! Mia from London, UK btw!It's hard as an artist to pinpoint my favourit… https://t.co/fIOs3UWVYw
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

A1 Relationships are something more than acquaintance. If you know someone enough for a conversation, you are at le… https://t.co/LW59t8VQzc
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialcafechat Thanks, @Kathrynclang ... for our #GettingToKnow you question here on #SocialCafe The "why" made… https://t.co/DnTBTxgB79
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

RT @socialwebcafe: A1 Relationships are something more than acquaintance. If you know someone enough for a conversation, you are at least a…
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@_TomGReid Probably blue ;). #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialcafechat A1. A connection between people over a period of time #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@thekryptikrose @socialcafechat Oh, I love teal! If there is a teal version of a blouse or dress, I pick it!Hey… https://t.co/BLoDmO6nKm
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A1) When two (sometimes more) people find a need within themselves that another person (or persons) seems to fill a… https://t.co/cMIgUG9JgO
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

RT @socialwebcafe: Q1 How do you define relationships (business or personal)? #SocialCafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

I love that definition - simple and to the point! #SocialCafe https://t.co/nMCxPWxnTj
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe I always wondered why purple was called indigo when it was in a rainbow. #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

Start getting those #ShamelessPlug tweets ready > We will tweet them later in #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

Nice! #SocialCafe https://t.co/GvpMC19Afk
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A1: Relationship is engaged connections with others.#SocialCafe https://t.co/plAxDgJzvc
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)

Q2 Now, how does that definition stay the same (or differ) when it comes to online/social media relationships? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe @socialcafechat Honestly it's just so gorgeous & pairs well with nearly any other colour glad to b… https://t.co/0sPJFw17FH
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@thekryptikrose @socialcafechat Good to see you Mia. And you do realize that is a color only women can see, right?… https://t.co/pinP5YJVuR
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

Q2 (rephrase) How do you define social media relationships? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

@socialwebcafe @socialcafechat @Kathrynclang I always like to ask what are the top three cities in your weather app. #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

A2: Anytime you connect and engage you can grow up relationships - whether online, through letters, or in person.… https://t.co/cl15XEi8hk
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)

Interesting...I did a quick search and Wikipedia has some interesting information... it sounds like some say that… https://t.co/QoWKRmCUEL
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A2 To some degree, online and offline relationships are defined the same. Like, you may have a phone call with so… https://t.co/lazVHpYDWu
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@Kathrynclang Not every relationship ends up with engagement. #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

I like how easy that is to remember. Good one @Kathrynclang #SocialCafe https://t.co/yBNNWlaJ6z
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@_TomGReid :)Depending on how you define it, it's a good idea that every relationship DOESN'T end up with engagement :D#SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)

@_TomGReid @socialcafechat Good to see you as well, Tom! I do realise that, but I know for a fact male artists have… https://t.co/N4v1nMtpCT
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@thekryptikrose @socialcafechat So true...!My "colors" are those that fall in the jewel tones and I am able to we… https://t.co/bihsrwwVjE
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe @socialcafechat Stunning #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

RT @socialcafechat: Q2 (rephrase) How do you define social media relationships? #SocialCafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@_TomGReid @thekryptikrose @socialcafechat Really? I didn't know that... interesting... #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialcafechat A2. They can be fleeting or meaningful. The depth of each relationship depends on how much time you… https://t.co/I8yeMP4zRe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

hehe :). #SocialCafe https://t.co/AA7Lb7yCGr
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q3 How can we healthily build social media relationships (business or personal)? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe Glad you both got it. #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

RT @socialwebcafe: Q3 How can we healthily build social media relationships (business or personal)? #SocialCafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

We have many needs as social human beings. Sometimes an online relationship is the exact right size and shape to fi… https://t.co/x0sA95JzXX
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

Q3 (rephrase) How do we build relationships online? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

@socialwebcafe A3. Be respectful, mindful & open to varying kinds of discussions. This not only helps personal hrow… https://t.co/8P3sBzi32H
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

A3 I think it is helpful to have some healthy boundaries in place and how to recognize when they are triggered. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

RT @_TomGReid: We have many needs as social human beings. Sometimes an online relationship is the exact right size and shape to fit that ho…
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

A3) Somewhat counter intuitive, but for a healthy relationship, it wouldn't hurt to get off our butts from in front… https://t.co/DqKBiuNeQu
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

@thekryptikrose @_TomGReid @socialcafechat Between the two of you, I'm learning a lot ... to add to the art categor… https://t.co/zcDPAmw6pZ
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Good way to put it. The online/offline is somewhat irrelevant especially as our culture moves forward and it is int… https://t.co/VuGk4dl3eq
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q4 How do we ensure that we are balanced (i.e. not burned out) when it comes to relationships online? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe @_TomGReid @socialcafechat Oh that would be brilliant, Deborah! Totally down for it #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

RT @socialwebcafe: Q4 How do we ensure that we are balanced (i.e. not burned out) when it comes to relationships online? #SocialCafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

Thanks @commun_it for helping us create #Twitter relationships https://t.co/fC7zsYXbPq please RT #SocialCafe #ad
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q4 (rephrase) How do we avoid burnout in building online relationships? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

@socialwebcafe A4. Know how to keep a healthy balance & not get carried away, I suppose haha #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

Love it! Thanks, @_TomGReid #SocialCafe https://t.co/OVshKITI6r
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A4 Again, boundaries. So, for the avoidance of burn-out one might want to set time limit boundaries... #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A4: You insure balance with online relationships when you make balance a priority.It's okay to say no.… https://t.co/peV54U56bC
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)

@_TomGReid Yes, get off our butts :). #SocialCafe That works toward a healthy relationship, eh?
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Cool! I'd provide you with the link. I'm revamping the site a bit so I might need a week... lol(I used to hav… https://t.co/rybJOk848F
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

RT @_TomGReid: @Kathrynclang Not every relationship ends up with engagement. #SocialCafe
— Amjed Sarfraz(@AmjedSarfraz)

Ah, 2 great points @Kathrynclang !1) Some people like to have that permission to say "no" - great reminder!2) A… https://t.co/rV9UzG6qM4
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q5 How do we measure the relationships (i.e. ensure that they are not dangerous or irrelevant) online? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q5 (rephrase) How do we ensure healthy relationships online? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

A5: If you enjoy the engagement and investment and receive something from it, then the relationship is relevant. If… https://t.co/r9sj1TEFkS
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)

A5 If we have any awkward feelings, pull back, as it may be an unhealthy relationship.If we have any panic type f… https://t.co/EzktZA6cx2
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A4) Not sure I'm the right person to ask for this one. Balance is grossly overrated. #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

@socialwebcafe A5. I suppose you need to assess the conversations. If you're not comfortable, you can always take a step back #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

Justice John Paul Stevens #RIP #SocialCafe #JohnPaul
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

RT @socialwebcafe: A5 If we have any awkward feelings, pull back, as it may be an unhealthy relationship.If we have any panic type feelin…
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

Q6 Now, have we determined how to walk that line when it comes to relevant, balanced online relationships? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

I had a guy chat me up on Facebook and ask 1) are you married and I answered yes. Then, he asked 2) currently? an… https://t.co/nhuMh5mGsp
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

RT @_TomGReid: Justice John Paul Stevens #RIP #SocialCafe #JohnPaul
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q6 (rephrase) Have we figured out successful online relationships? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

Great points - especially the "for a season." I think we may forget that one sometimes...#SocialCafe https://t.co/BE6WZDbFwh
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A6: You find your balance by defining your way - know your heartseed and live on purpose.Purposeful living sets a… https://t.co/bOsyOKAp3f
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)

A6 Trust your gut ;) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe A6. I suppose I have. Though it may be difficult to maintain the balance sometimes, but the key is t… https://t.co/b4U47Njvgj
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

RT @socialwebcafe: Q6 Now, have we determined how to walk that line when it comes to relevant, balanced online relationships? #SocialCafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@socialwebcafe It's gotten easier to spot the bots on twitter. Or the gold diggers. #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

@_TomGReid True. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Do you think it is helpful to remember to cut ourselves some slack and forgiving of ourselves?Being aware is one… https://t.co/a6dWuNgFKW
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe Definitely agree to that! After all, we're only human & sometimes online relationships can hold a lo… https://t.co/nrhgK4PedC
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

Q7 Any questions about building relevant, balanced, and successful online relationships? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe I think it has more to do with what sort of relationship you are looking to develop online. What nee… https://t.co/8XnoPpGPXA
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

@socialwebcafe @_TomGReid @socialcafechat Well, men probably CAN see them, it's just they don't take the time to an… https://t.co/iLJCvXKpMW
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

Q7 (rephrase) Any questions? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

@socialwebcafe A7. None that I can currently think of #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

A7 Hmmm... Nope, not right now. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@_TomGReid Pondering... I love your advice, @_TomGReid - you make me think and I like that ;)#SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@thekryptikrose @socialwebcafe @socialcafechat Alternatively, if you hear from a guy, the odds tend to be high that… https://t.co/wKUuNr4h8j
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

@socialwebcafe I'm glad to hear that. I consider that high praise. Thank you. #SocialCafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

Q8 Finally, it is time to brag about what you do well! Your #ShamelessPlug is .. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Q8 (rephrase) Time for the #ShamelessPlug! #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

A8 My favorite #ShamelessPlug is this #SocialCafe community (and #LinkedInChat) - family!
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

A8) This is happening this week. #SocialCafe https://t.co/KJUvIlyhED
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

@_TomGReid @socialwebcafe @socialcafechat I have to agree with you on that for the most part. But I feel there are… https://t.co/v00akGlTAR
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

RT @_TomGReid: A8) This is happening this week. #SocialCafe https://t.co/KJUvIlyhED
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@_TomGReid @thekryptikrose @socialcafechat Interesting... I'll remember that next time.Dumb me thought that sayin… https://t.co/KvzPMBfTyk
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@_TomGReid Looking forward to it, Tom! #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@thekryptikrose @socialwebcafe @socialcafechat Very rare. Safer to play the odds on this one. #socialcafe
— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid)

Hey people - add this to your calendar! #SocialCafe https://t.co/Yk8iiR8pP4
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Thank u for joining us for our #SocialCafe Chat. Just wanted to let you know we appreciate u!
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe A8. I've just launched my Premium Mental Health Empowerment Jewellery Collection this week & I'm so… https://t.co/8PDGXcl8F7
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@_TomGReid @socialwebcafe @socialcafechat Great advice, Tom! Will definitely keep it in mind :) #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

@socialwebcafe And WE appreciate YOU, Deborah #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

Oh, you are such a doll - thank you sooooo much @thekryptikrose ! #SocialCafe https://t.co/LCM7v3EVwi
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

Ok people - be sure to check this out vvvv #SocialCafe https://t.co/NE2ytskIg1
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)

RT @_TomGReid: @socialwebcafe It's gotten easier to spot the bots on twitter. Or the gold diggers. #SocialCafe
— Amjed Sarfraz(@AmjedSarfraz)

@socialwebcafe My utmost pleasure, lovely #socialcafe
— M I A ? R O S E(@thekryptikrose)

RT @socialwebcafe: I had a guy chat me up on Facebook and ask 1) are you married and I answered yes. Then, he asked 2) currently? and bef…
— i.g: @supersaiyanjoji(@sremmlife_lit)

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